There is a treatment called derma rolling. It's a great alternative for expensive lasers, botox and other cosmetic sugeries (for wrinkles).
You can have it done at a clinic or have a DIY treatment at home, It can reduce fine lines and wrinkles along with many other skin conditions like acne scars, pigmentation, uneven skin tone,large pores, stretch marks & even hair loss.
Basically, you will need a dermaroller. I recommend Dr. Roller brand.You may also need support topical products such as creams, serums or essence facial masks.
The dermaroller creates micro-holes in the outer layer of the skin a.k.a. epidermis.And in order to repair these micro-holes, the skin produces new tissues. Elastin and collagen (the substance that glues skin cells together) production are also stimulated.
As time goes by and with more derma rolling, the skin is remodeled, and new skin cells gradually replace the old, blemished & damaged skin cells, leading to supple, firmer and better looking skin.
I use a derma roller called Dr Roller and this anti-wrinkle cream called SYNAKE Intensive Snake Cream. Celebrities use snake creams so I thought, why not?
You can also use derma rolling sets. I got my moisturizing set from this site, too. (See Source)
Hope this helps! :) Take Care.
Oh yeah, mellowing out is good. What you consider important now will be irrelevant in a few years. Find what helps you keep your head on straight while being able to do your best. That, too, will help with the wrinkles.